Welcome back to my blog! My last “lifestyle” post was about Why I Travel and I felt like majority of the post talked about my experience studying abroad. So, I decided to make a list: 5 Reasons to Study Abroad.
I am including this in my lifestyle page because studying abroad is a whole different ball game. This is going to be your life for a year or 6 months, depending on the program. Not only will it be your life, but it will change your life and I am about to tell you why.
- To learn something you can’t in a classroom
Have you ever been sitting in class, whether it be in high school or college, and just asked yourself… “What have I learned in the last hour?”. I feel like I was always bored in high school.
I am the type of person that learns sooooo much better when I am working hands-on. I can read something as many times as you’d like but that doesn’t mean I am going to get it and retain it.
The amazing thing about studying abroad is that school suddenly comes alive. I learned more in my year abroad than probably in my entire school career.
I am not talking about learning how to solve equations or the different subclasses of species, most of that was in Norwegian anyways so I wasn’t really listening. At least not at first…
Before I could speak any Norwegian, most of my school days were spent staring into space and watching Netflix on my school laptop. Until, my main teacher approached me a month into school and said, “Hey, I am super happy you’re here but I feel like you might get more out of exploring the city during the day.”.
This is how I felt about that. One of my many train rides around the country.
This was THE SINGLE GREATEST thing a teacher has ever said to me. I then spent the rest of my exchange going to school only for P.E. class and English. I spent lunch at the school most days so I could see my friends, but otherwise I was traveling.
Me at Holmenkollen watching an international ski jump competition.
Within 2 months of “exploring”, my Norwegian became so much better. Being in the city forced me to use what little language skills I had and improve on them.
Eventually, I became confident enough to venture into Oslo and the surrounding cities with my fellow exchange students. We learned so much about the culture and the language from pure immersion, more than I had learned in three years of Spanish class back home.
Towards the end of my year I was in Sweden with my exchange friends and we asked some locals in Stockholm for directions in Norwegian.
My good friend Sabrina and I exploring Stockholm.
I kid you not, they looked at us and said in Swedish “Oh we have some Norwegians, what city are you from?”. I swear, I almost cried. There is not a compliment in the world that has ever made me feel so proud!
I did that, I learned a foreign language! Not only did I learn how to speak Norwegian, but I could understand two additional languages. It was amazing, and still is every time I get the pleasure of speaking Norwegian.
2. Learn something about yourself
One of the biggest things I gained from my study abroad was a relationship with myself.
I was never one to date in high school, I was usually doing my own thing. I mean don’t get me wrong, I had plenty of friends, did classical ballet most of my life, and participated in school events. But, I was 16, I didn’t know who I was or what I wanted out of life.
I am not going to sit here and say that I found out my life purpose while studying abroad but it certainly kick started the process. If you read my Why I Travel post then you know I struggled with some pretty deep rooted stuff.
I truly believe that being on my own and re-writing who I was in a new place, allowed me to explore a part of me that I was nervous to explore back home.
My closest Norwegian friends and I enjoying a camping trip on my last night there.
When you go abroad, no one knows who you were before you got there. You don’t have to be anything you don’t want to be. And so, you have the chance to try new things, befriend different types of people, and ultimately challenge yourself.
I honestly believe it is impossible not to learn something about who you are on a journey like this.
3. Learn something about humans and humanity
One of the biggest things I did not understand before embarking on this adventure is that everything you are taught is not always true.
Of course people want to protect you, especially if like me you are doing a high school study abroad program. People are going to fill your head with travel advice, people and places to avoid, when to say your Canadian, and when to own your American nationality.
Here is the deal, I am not telling you to disregard every piece of advice you get, you should always be aware of your surroundings and trust your instincts. But PLEASE, DO NOT avoid places and people because you have been taught that they “hate Americans”.
This is me in Lithuania. This turned out to be one of the coolest places I have ever been!
The reality of that mindset is that you actually become the prejudice one. I promise when you meet kind people who you assumed wouldn’t like you just because of where you’re from, you are going to feel like an ass hole. As my mother always tells me ” To assume is to make an ass out of you and me.”.
The most important thing about studying abroad is keeping an open mind! You have to be easy going and take things as they come.
All people work the same way you and I do. They need food to eat, a job to support themselves and their families, they love, and they cry. So don’t demonize someone because they happen to be from Russia or anywhere else for that matter.
I guarantee people will surprise you in wonderful ways if you let them.
4. You don’t have to try something that scares you…cause you’re already forced to every day!
I feel like every time I see an inspirational quote it says “try something that scares you”.
I thought I’d add these to prove a humorous point.
This mentality will become laughable to you because your daily life is something that scares you, not in a bad way. I just want to clarify that I mean that in the most positive of ways!
Going to school in a foreign country is EXTREMELY nerve racking. I was so scared to go to school everyday for the first couple of months.
There is nothing like starting a new school in high school but then throw in the language barrier, fashion differences, and the fact that I lived in Norway where everyone is a string bean with blonde hair and here I am. Half black, 5’2″, with dark curly hair.
I wasn’t kidding about the height difference…
Needless to say I was stared at A LOT.
But I worked it to my advantage and was soon the American girl people wanted at their parties. It’s all about working those angles.
5. If you can do this, you can do anything!
There is something to be said for the mental will power it takes a person to leave everything they have ever known to willingly be thrown into a new and completely foreign culture. Especially at a young age.
Most people who study abroad are so young that they have little to no life experience to prepare them for this. If you ask me, just making the decision to study abroad in itself is highly commendable.
Dancing in the streets of Warsaw, Poland to live music.
It is important to remember that while being an exchange student comes with many perks and unique memories, it is NOT easy.
I arrived in Norway in August, I was in awe for the first few months and having a blast. And then the homesickness sets in around the holidays. I have never cried so much in public as I did in the months of November and December while on my exchange.
Everything made me emotional.
I even cried while trying to teach my Norwegian friends how to make s’mores because “they weren’t doing it right”.
I missed my family, my family’s traditions, and honestly… I really freaking missed my dogs.
Studying abroad is no easy feat. But, if you can push yourself to do it, you’ll find a sense of pride and confidence that you did’t have before. I feel like I can do anything I put my mind to now. And I owe a lot of that to the growing I did while on my exchange.
It’s amazing what you can learn when you are your own safety net.
My exchange family made up of over 30 kids from 10 different countries.